【鲜明对比】老人摔倒,无人敢扶;老外摔倒,众人扶助——爱本无国界,本无前提

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外国朋友北京地铁晕倒 路人争相来扶(组图)

2016年01月28日 16:42   来源:参考消息网

 

9点10分左右,一外国朋友在太阳宫站内晕倒,路人立刻过来搀扶,接连发生温暖画面:一女孩立刻拨打急救电话;一男孩脱下羽绒服为他披上;懂中医的阿姨为他按摩穴位;急救人员5分钟内赶到诊治。“我感觉好多了,谢谢!”外国朋友说。

【本网评论】老人摔倒,无人敢扶;老外摔倒,却争相扶助,为何如此鲜明对比?

人性本善,这不仅是人作为高级动物的特性,也是动物生物的天性。弱肉强食,虽然是动物生存法则,但在自己力所能及的范围内,又不有损自己利益时,低级动物也会尽举手之劳的。爱,就是奉献,甘愿奉献一切,本无前提要求,也本无国界之分,因为国家只是土地私有制的逻辑苦果,并在霸权专制互相争雄争霸中进一步巩固、险恶;人类对动物尚且会奉献爱心,岂止是对于同样的同胞呢?究竟是什么因素导致当代许多方面竟然人不如兽?!

  • 这是社会诚信与否的必然结果。当社会人们常常以善于欺诈为能事时,就使人难免防不胜防,干脆只好视若无睹,听而不闻;而西方社会因官员竞选靠德才兼备,才能获得选票,大致能够保持诚实;而官员作为社会领导,其一言一行对全民起着示范作用,以致人民大多能保持诚信的美德。

诚信是最有效率的美德,她使人们只需凭直观就能做出初步的判断与行为取舍。不过,好在这位摔倒的是白人,一般为西方人,才能得到中国人民本能的相信;假如是来自有类似社会背景的中东、非洲的外国人,恐怕中国人也会迟疑谨慎的,特别是对于类似新疆少数民族的中东人,人们恐怕还会产生“恐怖”的联想。可见,并非中国人民崇洋媚外,而是崇尚制度的逻辑;并非人民不尊老爱幼,并非人民不念同胞亲情,而是双方或多方都基于同一常识:既然那些人民公仆都会如此这般,那(我)他一个老人又如何使不得呀?!

2、善于欺诈,当然不是中国人与外国人在本性上有多少差异,还是另一制度的使然——本来,越是老人,越是会成为道德的楷模,这是人之将死其言也善的扩大,也是身为长辈、爷辈的生理进化。但是,当社会严重缺乏对老人,特别是广大平民老人的医疗等基本保障时,当政府只是强调由血缘家庭子女承担对老人的赡养责任时,当广大平民子女又大多自身自家难保时,老人们就被迫为老不尊,狠下心,欺诈起外面的善良人士了,让他们“好人做到底”。之所以如此麻木不仁,心安理得,还在于——

3、尽管包括中国在内的几乎各国宪法都赶时髦的规定:当人民面临困难时,有请求国家帮助的权利。但并无具体落实,而体制使人民无能与政府相争,也不敢与官斗,有些人又天生有好勇斗狠的性格,就发泄于善良“弱者”了。这也说明,如此恩将仇报者始终只是一些,而非全部或多数。

4、体制导致官员包括法官也难有天性公正、善于推理者,使许多类似疑案的判决失之偏颇,加深了社会悲剧,如,现实中不乏老人摔倒主要是因被他人包括小孩不小心碰撞所致,至少是因受其打闹或违规行车等惊吓所致,即,应为混合过错。但因法官不求甚解,不做实地考察,就偏听偏信,或以貌似公正,依简单舆论下判,都归咎为老人讹诈,导致蝴蝶效应:撞到老人不要紧,只要我一口咬定是老人又在讹诈。

5、当然,关键是整个社会上行下效,已形成:诚实可惜、可怜、可悲,欺诈才可行、甚至可歌可泣!不仅大人会本能的撒赖,以敢于善于撒赖为能事,就连小孩也耳濡目染,被言传身教,而活生生改写了儿童的生理规律——童言无忌;不仅成人被扭曲,连小孩也早早变异,儿童的直言从反面彰显悲哀,如广州市某重点小学一女生回答市教委领导提问:你长大了想做什么呢?——当贪官!表面惊世骇俗,实则合乎逻辑;连广州市海珠区的那位市级道德模范在演讲其“道德经”时,就自豪的传授:如果我遇到老人倒地,我当然不会马上去扶,而是先照相取证,再找一二位证人现场作证,并非我撞倒老人后才扶他—–令人失望至极!真是扶不起的阿斗!

真正的道德是:只要老人摔倒,不管老人会否讹诈,我都会本能的、没有任何其它想法的冲上去扶助!宁可人负我,不可我负人(或者,换成音同异议:宁可我扶人,不计人扶我),才是基本的道德;甚至明知是陷阱,会被讹诈,也挺身而出,以自己的无私、高尚去感化对方,使对方也幡然醒悟,变幻成黑色幽默:嘿嘿,我—我,只是为了试试找到比亲生儿女更亲的干儿子——这更是最高的道德与惊人的艺术!

欲知如何才能实行人人争当道德好人、道德高人的天使人间,其实非常容易,只需实行人人互评道德分数,以道德分数取代金钱等,就足以!具体措施请见网站:全民主共产主义大家庭www.alldemocracybigfamily.com

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